Mastering your brain can make you rich beyond your wildest dreams but first you need to understand the inside mental game that may be holding you back.

One of America’s foremost media psychologists, Dr. Brenda Wade has helped millions of people via television, live training events, books and social media create the love they’ve always wanted.

Dr. Brenda is an author of three books, a TV hostess of a nationally-syndicated show “Can This Marriage Be Saved?” and has been featured in Essence Magazine. You may have also seen her on Oprah, the Today Show, Good Morning America, and CNN.

She has some unique insights into how our emotional and mental “stuff” gets in the way of our relationships and finances. Her books and work are all about transforming and expanding human and financial boundaries. Love Lessons: A Guide to Transforming Relationships; What Mama Couldn’t Tell Us About Love; and Power Choices: Seven Steps to Creating Wholeness, Joy, Love and Peace all speak of ways to find – and hold on to – happiness.


Her website is

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Episode Breakdown:

2:00 Guest Intro

3:50  How Toxic Love Affects Money

6:00  “Our love and money patterns are formed by age 8”

12:40 Toxic Love Patterns: Traits of a Love Destroyer

14:45  Traits of a Love Avoider

18:20  Traits of a Love Doormat

23:30 Traits of a Love Freezer

26:00 How to activate your “second mind”

29:00 Money differences: Men vs. women